So my little girl said to me yesterday...
Kk: "Mom you are #2 on my list of people that I love." Me:"Thanks baby but who is #1?" Kk: "Myself." Me:"Yesssss!!!" We are not taught in our society how to love ourselves. We would live in a much different world if it did. But that's okay... That's why I came here. I realized the incredible importance of loving yourself unconditionally. Not just when you are your perfect shining self either. When your cooking totally rocks, you’re having one of those awesome hair days, you say the right things, you smash out your work and personal projects, you light up the room and bluebirds follow you everywhere singing Frank Sinatra "Come Fly with me." You have to love yourself on the bad days too. When you stuff up. Say the wrong things. Your curls won’t stay in. You’re exhausted. Anxious. Your fears keep you awake at night. You temporarily succumb to procrastination, drama and too much take-out. You are equally lovable at all times. You are worthy spiritual being having a human experience. You totally win at life simply by being here. In every moment you are fulfilling your destiny and purpose on earth - to be you, a unique and once-in-an-infinity collection of magic and energy. Why is unconditional self-love so important? Unconditional self-love gives you the strength and courage to try new things and to go after your dreams, because you have insurance - you know that no matter what the outcome, you love yourself deeply. It’s like a safety net if you ask me... a minimum height below which you will never fall. Knowing that you have your own back, knowing that your self-worth is not dependent on your success, drives you to try more because you’ve got nothing to lose - which in turn, leads to greater success. It’s a lot like the saying: success does not bring happiness; happiness brings success. I have learnt that success doesn’t bring self-love; self-love brings success. So go ahead... I dare you to fall head over heels in love with yourself today. Yeah... #totalrockstars in love❤ www.CarolynRim.com Are you ready to join the rockstar family yet? The place where dreams do come true? Request to join here: www.facebook.com/groups/SparkEnergy/ |
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