"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness which most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. You playing small does not serve the world."
-Nelson Mandella Don't pretend to be something your not. Be your true amazing self. Be aware of who you surround yourself with daily. You can't choose your family but you can choose your friends. Identify the top three energy draining relationships you are commited to saying NO to. Focus on creating strategies to free yourself from each of them. Make the decision to only surround yourself with people who will push you towards your goals and dreams. Remove thoughts that are limiting, defeating or downright negative! Which thoughts will you no longer entertain? Any thoughts that do not move you toward your goals. What relationships will you not keep? The way you manage your relationships has an enormous impact on your ability to perform at high energy levels. Have you ever started talking to someone who constantly complains or always plays the victim and you suddenly feel depleted or tired!? Get rid of those relationships now. If it does not advance you towards your goals, or make you feel happy, special and fulfilled...then you don't need to be in company like that. You will amount to what the top 5 people you hang around amount too. Who you hang around is critical to reaching your goals so stick with people who don't want to change you but love you for who you are. Peak performance, optimal health and genuine happiness are all grounded in the skillful art of energy management. "There will never be a day in your life that doesn't require dedication, discipline, perserverance and personal integrity." -Gary Ryan Blair |
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