So my little girl said to me yesterday...
Kk: "Mom you are #2 on my list of people that I love."
Me:"Thanks baby but who is #1?"
We are not taught in our society how to love ourselves. We would live in a much different world if it did. But that's okay... That's why I came here. I realized the incredible importance of loving yourself unconditionally. Not just when you are your perfect shining self either.
When your cooking totally rocks, you’re having one of those awesome hair days, you say the right things, you smash out your work and personal projects, you light up the room and bluebirds follow you everywhere singing Frank Sinatra "Come Fly with me."
You have to love yourself on the bad days too.
When you stuff up. Say the wrong things. Your curls won’t stay in. You’re exhausted. Anxious. Your fears keep you awake at night. You temporarily succumb to procrastination, drama and too much take-out.
You are equally lovable at all times. You are worthy spiritual being having a human experience.
You totally win at life simply by being here. In every moment you are fulfilling your destiny and purpose on earth - to be you, a unique and once-in-an-infinity collection of magic and energy.
Why is unconditional self-love so important?
Unconditional self-love gives you the strength and courage to try new things and to go after your dreams, because you have insurance - you know that no matter what the outcome, you love yourself deeply.
It’s like a safety net if you ask me... a minimum height below which you will never fall.
Knowing that you have your own back, knowing that your self-worth is not dependent on your success, drives you to try more because you’ve got nothing to lose - which in turn, leads to greater success.
It’s a lot like the saying: success does not bring happiness; happiness brings success. I have learnt that success doesn’t bring self-love; self-love brings success.
So go ahead... I dare you to fall head over heels in love with yourself today. Yeah... #totalrockstars in love❤
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I'm talking about Good vibrations! (?? Now you will have that song stuck in your head all day, your welcome lol)
Recently Someone from my past reached out to me. It ended pretty badly between us about a year ago. It was someone who I initially hired to help with an event of mine but they ended up bailing on me and putting down my programs (even though he had never done them), me, my partners and my brand to everyone. That was about almost a year ago and this person contacted me recently and wanted to make up. I meditated about it and I decided that it would be nice to make up.
As soon as I got on the phone- this person started talking about all his issues- and I had never felt more grateful that this person was not in my life anymore. He started talking about others in a mean way (which I do not have time for gossip or drama and even if I did- that vibration doesn't work for me). He even called another human and I quote "A piece of shit." Wow. I literally had to cover my ears when he said that and asked him to stop talking like that. I do not surround myself with people who talk like this about another human being.
I realized I had grown a lot over the year and I also realized this person hasn't grown at all. This person started talking about money and how much we would make together. Now- let me explain- this person has a huge audience!!! It was a huge opportunity he was offering and this person told me I could potentially make $150,000 for 2 months of my time. He was pushy and wanted to set dates and share audiences but I know in my heart I am not money motivated. Not only that... I genuinely care about my audience and who I partner with has a direct reflection on me, and must be at least a vibrational match to me or higher. You all know what I am talking about ... I'm talking about Good vibrations! (🎶🎶 Now you will have that song stuck in your head all day, your welcome lol).
Plus In the past 18 months... Anytime I was focused solely on making money--- the event or projects ended up crumbling. Now- please understand, I make money and it continues to flow in avalanches to me as long as I do what I love and focus on giving from my heart.
I remembered in my mind back a year ago how mad I was when this person told me I was Un resourceful and that my business would fail because of me. He said very mean things about me. I will tell you, him telling me I couldn't do it, only fueled me more to want to prove him wrong that I could do it. I am thankful for this person because he served me in valuable ways and I learned a lot from our exchanges.
I ended up telling this person that I appreciated them reaching out but at this time I was laser focused on my goals and needed to continue to focus my energy and commitment to things I had already committed myself too. He kept pushing about partnering and finally I realized I had to block this person again.
I will say that this is not me talking down about his person, because I believe deep down all people are good. I believe hurt people hurt people- but that doesn't make it right or wrong it just is what it's is. My only reason for telling you this is I learned a valuable lesson from it.
The lesson here is everything that is happening is always for your highest good. When someone leaves you, or when the universe removes someone from your life, whether that be in a relationship or in a business, thank the universe. Start having a belief that everything is happening to help elevate you to get what you want and desire. Dreams do come true when you be who you are and do what love. The universe is on your side and has your back and is always working in your favor!
Trust your gut instincts and listen to your heart... Because when you follow your heart... Every moment is like an encounter with God. You have a beautiful destiny awaiting you ... Now Leave all the drama and negative shit behind you! Lol peace out Girl and boy Scouts! Go have a b e a utiful day!
Sending you hugs, high fives and BLISSFUL Pattern breaking ass slaps,
AKA America's Top Confidence Coach
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Have you ever woken up one morning and thought to yourself, this is it? Is this all there is?
This is all life is about? This can't be it.
18 months ago... I thought to myself .... LIFE is boring and unchallenging and unfulfilling. I hated myself, I hated my past, I hated my job and what I had become. HECK... I was just part of the masses and why did I matter anyway. Work. Eat. Sleep. Sleep. Work. Eat. Sleep. I felt like I was in a deep end job lost in a rinse and repeat cycle of the same day over and over and over again. I wanted to die to be honest. I would rather die than spend another minute in this cube I thought. Hanging around with people that told me my dreams were impossible and that it was just safer to stay here. I still remember the question my husband at the time had asked me, "Why can't you just be happy with the way thing are?" He didn't understand that I felt like my soul as dying.
I literally felt like I was dying within and to be honest I was. Then I found Tony Robbins and the tools he gave me to implement. Simple tools that anyone could do. I did them daily and I modeled him and Joseph Mcclendon. Using the all the tools I slowly over the past 18 months rewired my brain.
I sought out a monk and worked with her relentlessly to learn how to relax and tap into the energy, to the chi. All of sudden, I felt alive again. I felt challenged by going for something that others will only ever dream about but I took the leap and I did with child like faith that I would be able to build the bridge. I meant a group of people that changed my life forever. I fell in love with myself and this process we call life.
NOW, I am showing other people how to do it with my 99 day dare ... but I decided to take it even further. What if I could condense it all into a 30 day rewiring process? What if all I needed from people was 15 mins a day?
ARE YOU READY TO REWIRE YOUR BRAIN?
What if I told you that you could program yourself to be wealthy, healthy, successful and happy? What if I told that I could re program your brain in 30 days and by using simply tools and techniques such as visualization, incantations, and meditations? What I told that I found the secret that will help bridge the gap from where you now to where you want to be? How much would that be worth to you? 1000's? 100's? Well you are in luck... Right now ... This 30 day program is UNLIKE ANY PROGRAM ON THE MARKET!!!
I will be meditating LIVE everyday at 12pm noon with you in a secret fb group! Sounds like magic? Yes it is!!!! You can create the star dust and sparkle in your life too. You can wake up with more immense joy than you ever thought possible? You are a loud speaking sending out vibrations and every time you send out frustration angry or struggle....guess what you attract more of? Allow me to help you tap in and send out waves of love, magic, happiness, wealth, and health. Yes with this program many many many lives will be shifted forever!!!
CLAIM YOUR SPOT INTO THE LIVE STEAMED 30 DAY MEDITATION! THIS IS THE ONE AND ONLY TIME I WILL BE DOING THIS PROGRAM LIVE LIKE THIS SO JOIN ME TODAY!!!
Here is just a FRACTION of what people are saying about the some of meditations, visualizations and programs already:
"I love being present each day with like minded souls, I love the energy, the support, the friendliness, the love, the laughs, the daily dares, and the progress = happiness in my world and the ripple effect I'm having on others. I love the blessings I am getting since I opened myself up to receiving in one of the meditations." ~Sean Lynch
"I can feel myself transforming even more and this dare is helping me to realize my inner strength and how Powerful I Am!!" ~ Jovie J Sumner
"These meditations are incredible and I can see and feel a difference already. During our meditation portion my son woke up and nuzzled initially behind me and as I remained focused he crawled around towards the front and I immediately embraced him and finished off the meditation with him curled in my arms. We've been having extreme challenges in the mornings getting ready for school and my patience had been diminishing. This morning while still challenging, I found myself to remain calm, speaking to him more from a place of love and play rather than stress and frustration. I can't thank you enough." ~Angelica Mercado
"I have to thank you Carolyn Rim for creating this AWESOME platform!! I haven't been able to be on in the mornings, but I replay and do the meditations at night. I too feel this new angel presence of calmness and patience with my kids. The truth is that as there mom...I truly do dictate the mood in the house...at first I came to be resentful of this responsibility and now... I'm humbled for this gift. Thank you all for helping change the negative noise in my head and for being the change I needed!!! Carolyn Rim, because of you I've made lifetime friend's...genuine, REAL women and men! I'm so honored I got to meet you and all your spark.. It's electric!!" ~Christina Simmons
"Thanks to this amazing dare I have had the opportunity to connect to likeminded people. Here I found the caring, enthusiastic and loving soul of Carolyn Rim. Almost 3 months ago I joined her first 99 day dare program and for me that is the difference as I'm ending this year and starting the new one: full of gratitude, peace, happiness and a vision for myself. I'm looking forward to start the new 99 day dare in January first. Definitely life will never be the same." --Paola Aguirre Fuentes
"Each call, each meditation, each day, I get closer to my core and am unleashing the inner power and fire that I've been stuffing down for way too long. I also love the amazing energy that I feel from all of the souls together!" ~Debbie Pace
"You folks bring so much energy and positivity! I've been working out and training for my next race, but I've still been struggling with procrastination and self doubt. This dare is about not only me, but my family. I'm going to be the best husband and father I can be and make my family proud!Surrounded with a positive peer group has helped shift my focus and just be the best possible version of myself!" ~Jim Sturgill
"It's like I have been reborn into this incredible new life!!! I LOVE the morning meditations, I LOVE connecting with everyone here and all the amazing energy!! I LOVE the dares and I feel like I have finally found "home" where I can truly be ME!!!! So now I am living from this space each and every day, emerging from a "sleep" that I was in and transforming into this beautiful butterfly. I feel so alive, so connected and so vibrant with so much JOY!!!" ~Ariel Michael
"I love how I'm connecting to myself through self exploration and through the connection of everyone in this group. The more I learn about others, the more I'm learning about myself. I LOVE Carolyn Rim and her energy! I just feel more alive since joining this group!! I feel like I've found "home."
~Marci 'Turowski' Ebbens
"This dare makes me feel like my heart is home." ~ Sivan Nathan
"Love the visualizations, meditations, and sharing 3 wins with my accountability buddies. It makes me feel excited about life. Thanks all!" ~Michele Santo
"I love how this dare is making me feel like I am getting pulled into my transformation, rather than being pushed ..... When u surround yourself with the right people ..... Magic happens." ~Lori Cal
"I love knowing that there are so many other superstars out there who want to grow and improve and make the world better, just like me! I love the morning calls which set me up in deep deep gratitude for the whole day. I love the dares!! I so look forward to finding out what is next. I love the FB group and all the posts which are inspirational and heartwarming and full of real proof that this stuff really works! I love my new tribe! I can't say enough! Something pulled me into this (my angels/guides?) and I am so thankful. So happy." ~Milli Abrams
"I love the energy and positive, forward-looking, outlook everyone has. I love the daily attention to beauty. I love the connection with my brilliant Butterfly accountability buddies." ~ Jennifer Lynch
"This is my second dare. Carolyn Rim you are so right, it is getting better and better. I feel my vibrational level going up and I feel the love in my heart. I am utterly grateful." ~ Beth Komisar
"The unbelievable F#cking Speed and Level of Change and Enlightenment going on in our home and life!! Plus, all you super amazing new people we are connecting with! 😘 Carolyn Rim ...You Freakin Rock!" ~Andrea Hafford Meilleurr
"I love my accountability partners. Also love love Carolyn Rim's visualizations and of course Joseph Mcclendon!" Helen Maffinii
"I love feeling connected. I like reading about people's journeys and hearing their success stories in the secret facebook group. It really can make a believer out of you. Most of all, I like dancing with my dog and Carolyn Rim at the end of the call!" Barbara Tye
And the list goes on and on and on .... Many people are getting transformations, tickets to upw, opportunities to meet others, starting their own business an most of all.,... People are getting the love. They are creating the belief that they are worthy of their dreams coming true. They are creating the belief that they are worth love and deserve to be happy. They are literally having a spiritual awakening and looking into the eyes of their creator and realizing just how magnificent they are and they too are a co creator and they were born to create, to love, to fucking unleash!!!! I get so passionate about this... you must understand that when you are tapped in, tuned in and powered on... You no longer have to be pushed. You are pulled towards your dreams like a magnet...
I dare you to join me for 30 days ... NO ONE ELSE IS DOING LIVE STREAMED MEDITATIONS IN A FB GROUP... COME REWIRE YOUR BRAIN and AWAKEN TO THE GIFT WITHIN!!!
ONLY 50 SPOTS OPEN IN THIS ONE!!! ALREADY 25 SPOTS HAVE BEEN TAKEN!!!
LIFE WILL NEVER BE THE SAME AGAIN!
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