"Beauty is when you can appreciate yourself. When you love yourself, that's when you're most beautiful."
-Zoe Kravitz I feel like I have found the secret and I want to share it with you. Its self love & self acceptance. This is how you go from being ordinary to extraordinary. Put down the bat you use to beat yourself up with and just be who you are. When you end the resistance to being yourself, exactly as you are right now, in this moment, then you will start to experience the shifts all along. When you see that you embody all the same gifts, talents and abilities as the divine, then you will know the truth. You are limitless potential, there is nothing to heal and nothing to fix. When you apply the qualities of love and trust to the experience of yourself, then you will know your innate unbreakability. Life is not a journey of overcoming obstacles. Your life is a state of being to be celebrated and enjoyed. Major life events such as becoming a parent, getting divorced or managing a financial loss are not being done to you. They are a chance for your greatest evolution and growth. I know it may not always feel like this, but it is these very events that help you into a greater state of harmony with yourself. I believe this is how one shines brighter then the others. It only When you give up the conflict with being yourself, that is when you find yourself. “Follow your inner moonlight; don't hide the madness.” ―Allen Ginsberg "It not the size of the dog in the fight, it's the size of the fight that's in the dog." -Mark Twain
How do you see yourself? How do you talk to yourself? I want you to understand how important it is to think of yourself as superman or superwoman. The thoughts you have about your life, your world and your dreams .... Those thoughts become reality. So if you say in your mind, "I will always be stuck in this dead end job" or "You need money to make money." They are all beliefs and thoughts and they become your reality. This is science. It's been proven that those who visualize a task or goal before they do it are 80% more likely to achieve there goal. The main action step for vivid visualization is to possess the right thinking, the positive mental reinforcements, that guide you toward manifesting the reality you desire. So I will ask again, what do you think you can have and what do you think you can't have? Do you think you deserve a loving supportive family or spouse? Do you think you deserve to live in a world where money is no longer an issue? Do you deserve optimal health and peak performance? I tell myself in my head everyday that I deserve these things and they are manifesting quicker then I evet thought possible! The secret is in your daily habits. The only thing holding you back in your life is the bullshit story you keep telling yourself so wake up consciously and start living!!! Start telling yourself a different story!! You can bend reality to reflect the life you really want. Don't worry about the how. I will say that again because that was my biggest obstacle -don't worry about the how! Just focus on the end goal and everything else will unfold exactly as it's supposed to. You have to know what you want though. You will get nothing more and nothing less then what you visualize so take 10 minutes and really think about what you want. What would the perfect day look like for you? Write it down! The more details the better!!! "It's the repetition of affirmations that leads to belief. And once that belief becomes a deep conviction, things begin to happen." -Muhammad Ali "Whatever we plant in our subconscious mind and nourish with repetition and emotion will one day become a reality." -Earl Nightingale "A Quantum Leap is a breakthrough strategy. Its an explosive performance jump that will change your life forever. To apply this and make the leap you must ignore common sense. Quantum leap strategy requires a radically unconventional approach. Leapfrogging is based on what you can do NOW...and that doesn't necessarily have much at all to do with what you have done in the past. When you get right down to it, common sense is just what it sounds like. It's what people today commonly believe. And common sense is full of limitations especially when it comes to creating a breakthrough in your life. Common sense still lies to you. It focuses on the obstacles, reviews what you have done in the past, studies the normal achievement patterns of people in general, and then tells you what to commonly expect. Its a self-fulfilling prophecy and if you only rely on common sense to make a breakthrough, you can only expect to see common results. Ignoring common sense allows you to think, dream and conceptualize astounding accomplishments. What would be a goal well beyond the boundary of the probable ...far beyond the obvious next logical step for you? A quantum leap requires you to start thinking about all the grand things you want to be, have and do, instead of what common sense says is the reasonable thing for you to expect." -Gary Ryan Blair
I believe that changing your self limiting belief patterns and creating new empowering beliefs changes people for forever. My mindset is no longer held down by doubt and fear. I believe that the reason I have had so much success in the past 100 days, is because I changed my beliefs and imprinted new ones into my subconscious mind. I developed a crystal clear picture of what my dreams looked like. I had the ultimate end in mind and did not worry about the "how to" get there. I just focused all my energy on my dreams and that it was possible. I stopped hanging around people who thought it wasn't possible or told me I was weird for following my dream. I started hanging around peers that were on the same enlightened path as me. I got a mentor who already has what I want and follow the steps he took towards success. I don't compare my chapter 1 to his chapter 20. I stay in the present moment and believe with all my heart and soul that there are 1000 unseen hands supporting my journey. Step into your moment and follow your dreams. Even if you only take one small step everyday towards your dreams, even the smallest steps amount to great distances. -Carolyn Rim What if I told you that the average person has 60,000 thoughts a day and that these thoughts actually were controlling your reality? The subconscious mind is 90% more powerful then your conscious mind. See, you beliefs, values and opinions are shaping your reality. Do you believe you deserve the best life has to offer? Do you believe you deserve a loving supportive trusting relationship? Do you believe that it's possible to make 400,000 thousand dollars this year using your God given talents? Do you believe you contribute to the world just by being yourself and doing what you love? See - these are all beliefs. I had to change my beliefs and fall in love with myself. I have to shine brighter in the dark so that others may see the way out. I am a leader, an entrepreneur and I will put a dent in the universe. I will inspire millions to change there life and do what they love. This is the way I talk to myself. When the world is going crazy and everyone is like "Oh no what do we do??" Your beliefs tell people how to treat and respect you. Today, your mission is to create new truths about yourself. Now I don't want you to look at this as if you are changing yourself. I want you to look at it as you were finally willing to BE YOURSELF. There will be a moment in your life, when you are going to realize you could have been someone better. There is moment when you realize you could have done so much more!!! The way you talk to yourself matters. The thoughts that you think about matter!!! Can you fake until you make it??!! YES -Our nonverbals govern how people think about us and how they treat us. So our thoughts create our reality. What thoughts are you telling yourself? Your beliefs create your reality so create new beliefs to create a new reality. Thoughts and feelings create your reality. Change your thoughts and change your life.
"A man is but a product of his thoughts, what he thinks, he becomes." -Mahatma Gandhi "Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness which most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. You playing small does not serve the world."
-Nelson Mandella Don't pretend to be something your not. Be your true amazing self. Be aware of who you surround yourself with daily. You can't choose your family but you can choose your friends. Identify the top three energy draining relationships you are commited to saying NO to. Focus on creating strategies to free yourself from each of them. Make the decision to only surround yourself with people who will push you towards your goals and dreams. Remove thoughts that are limiting, defeating or downright negative! Which thoughts will you no longer entertain? Any thoughts that do not move you toward your goals. What relationships will you not keep? The way you manage your relationships has an enormous impact on your ability to perform at high energy levels. Have you ever started talking to someone who constantly complains or always plays the victim and you suddenly feel depleted or tired!? Get rid of those relationships now. If it does not advance you towards your goals, or make you feel happy, special and fulfilled...then you don't need to be in company like that. You will amount to what the top 5 people you hang around amount too. Who you hang around is critical to reaching your goals so stick with people who don't want to change you but love you for who you are. Peak performance, optimal health and genuine happiness are all grounded in the skillful art of energy management. "There will never be a day in your life that doesn't require dedication, discipline, perserverance and personal integrity." -Gary Ryan Blair This is actually very simple to do but many people forget this important aspect...GET CRYSTAL CLEAR ON WHAT YOU WANT.
"Your work is to simply determine what you want." -Abraham Hicks Abraham Hicks writes in one of her books that one of the biggest things keeping us away from our ideal vision is that we DO NOT know what this ideal vision is. Let Hicks give us an example: Let's say you're in a fight with your lover. STOP. PAUSE. Calm down the emotions. And ask yourself mentally....."Ok...I obvisously don't want THIS. So what then DO I WANT?" Hicks goes on to write: "The most valuable skill that you could ever develop is the skill of directing your thoughts toward what you want-to be adept at quickly evaluating all situations and then quickly coming to the conclusion on what you most want-and then giving your undivided attention to that." That makes sense right?! Now a little fight with a lover is one thing but what about life and all its roads and avenues. Work, balance, parenting, love, health, money. How clear are you on these things? Most people aren't clear. And that's why I choose this path that I am on right now. Each road you turn down leaves you feeling like your dreams are too out reach or too hard so you don't pursue them. You don't give yourself permission to dream big. You get by and just say I will play the cards I have and not ask for all Aces. I will just keep playing a small game so I don't frazzle myself or those around me. Don't slap your creator in the face by not playing full out! That is a story that you keep telling yourself and as long as you continue to tell yourself that same story.... You will continue to hit dead ends, road blocks and constantly be searching for the next feel good feeling from outside places. Just STOP. Hit the pause button and ask yourself... What do I want? Give yourself permission to dream big! What would you go for if you knew your success was guaranteed ?? "Act as if your success was guaranteed and start expecting great things to happen!!! Yes!! You can!!! Excellence begins inside." "It not the size of the dog in the fight, it's the size of the fight that's in the dog." -Mark Twain
How do you see yourself? How do you talk to yourself? I want you to understand how important it is to think of yourself as superman or superwoman. The thoughts you have about your life, your world and your dreams .... Those thoughts become reality. So if you say in your mind, "I will always be stuck in this dead end job" or "You need money to make money." They are all beliefs and thoughts and they become your reality. This is science. It's been proven that those who visualize a task or goal before they do it are 80% more likely to achieve there goal. The main action step for vivid visualization is to possess the right thinking, the positive mental reinforcements, that guide you toward manifesting the reality you desire. So I will ask again, what do you think you can have and what do you think you can't have? Do you think you deserve a loving supportive family or spouse? Do you think you deserve to live in a world where money is no longer an issue? Do you deserve optimal health and peak performance? I tell myself in my head everyday that I deserve these things and they are manifesting quicker then I evet thought possible! The secret is in your daily habits. The only thing holding you back in your life is the bullshit story you keep telling yourself so wake up consciously and start living!!! Start telling yourself a different story!! You can bend reality to reflect the life you really want. Don't worry about the how. I will say that again because that was my biggest obstacle -don't worry about the how! Just focus on the end goal and everything else will unfold exactly as it's supposed to. You have to know what you want though. You will get nothing more and nothing less then what you visualize so take 10 minutes and really think about what you want. What would the perfect day look like for you? Write it down! The more details the better!!! "It's the repetition of affirmations that leads to belief. And once that belief becomes a deep conviction, things begin to happen." -Muhammad Ali "Whatever we plant in our subconscious mind and nourish with repetition and emotion will one day become a reality." -Earl Nightingale Create new beliefs to create a new reality. Ever since you were a child, you had the potential and ability to dream beyond your wildest imagination. Movie Star, Astronaut, Singer, Writer. You could be whatever you wanted to be when you grew up. There were no rules, boundaries or limitations. But something happened along the way. You became conditioned to fit a ceratin mould. To live your life within certain limitations. And it's these self-limiting beliefs that is holding you back. You must know that its not your fault and most of us (if not all) of us have gone through the motions...You were taught to pursue certain subjects or specfic degree in school or college. You were expected to behave or carry yourself in a certain way by your parents. You were programmed to fit the mold and surrender to just being average or normal. The result??? You live your life stuck in a pattern "rince and repeat" behaviors and you put yourself on auto pilot and just go through the motions. If you could really live a life beyond your wildest dreams, you must break the pattern of self sabotage. Once you change your beliefs and reprogram your subconscious mind, magical synchronicities with your visions, chance conversations wih people on the same enlightened path, and flashes of inspiration that reveal the steps you need to take to get to the life you dream about. What if you could change the thinking that keeps you from the life you want? What if you could shift the course of your life? You can, and that shift happens once you learn to avoid "realistic" expectations, and focus your thoughts on your true desires. If your life is a story thats unfolding right now, know that you're the person who holds the pen. What will your story be?
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