Where I was...
•Super unhappy with my job doing the same thing over and over and over again. 🤬Think Groundhog Day on repeat.
•Wanted to kill myself because I didn’t think I deserved to live 😥
•Hated myself and who I had become 😭
•Constant judgement for the world around me. 🙄
My reality NOW... 😍🙌🏻🙏🏻
My friends family and clients... call me a few things. Rockstar... unicorn.... but the most I get called is Manifestation Queen 👸
I have manifested my dream life. I manifested my soulmate and we have the most delicious juicy relationship (I promise for those who are thinking that “the one” doesn’t exist and are just settling.... PLEASE LISTEN to your heart and soul... the right one is out there if you are willing to live with uncertainty for a bit!🧐🤩Someone once said we live in known hells and resist unknown heavens simply because we are afraid of the unknown!)
What I had to do to have the above (and below lol 😂 that’s what she said) ...
•Husband left me (we went on and off for 3 years because I was so scared to be alone)
•Went through a divorce 😞
•live with massive uncertainty😲
•Moved into my sisters basement with my daughter🤭
•Listen to my soul when it was called to go to an event and not worry about the money (if you really want to make it happen you will... if you don’t you will find an excuse)
•Had to trust that God had something better for me
WHERE I AM AT NOW....
***Created and manifested a million dollar business
***HOLD SOLD OUT EVENTS AND SPEAK ALL OVER THE WORLD
***BECAME A BEST SELLING AUTHOR
***MANIFESTED MY SOULMATE who is one of the top healers in the world (I wrote that on my list lol) Jason Ozuna
***EPIC RELATIONSHIP WITH MY FAMILY AND DAUGHTER
***FREEDOM TO DO WHAT I WEANT, WHEN I WANT, WITH WHOM I WANT!
***CREATED AN INNER CIRCLE WITH 150 ROCKSTARS all over the world which is led by me and Mentored by Joseph McClendon
What I had to do to get that:
•Quit my job
•Went into 50k worth of debt 5 years ago
•Almost lost my house 🏡 (2 times)
•Deal with massive uncertainty
•Deal with my wound of not feeling like I deserve to live unless I helped people
•Put out 18 offers and only 4 of them succeeded... that’s 14 times people said NO and only 4 times that they said YES
•Had to deal with rejection, disappointment and failure
•Spend over $300k in coaches and masterminds ( I would invest most of the money I made from my successful courses and events back into me- that has paid off 💯- made all the money back and live my dreams now fully abundant)
•Grow my soul and heal deep trauma from my past
•Trust in God’s timing and not my own
I started thinking how literally anyone can become a manifestation king or queen. They just needed the right formula.
What is the number one secret to manifesting anything you want? To hold the vibration of abundance and joy even when it doesn’t happen right away. Faith baby!
Here is what happens to most people. They start to meditate and visualize a bit. They start thinking 10% more positive thoughts a day. They start seeing some signs and get really excited... and then it becomes still for awhile and they say this is bs and doesn’t work. Then they see everyone else succeeding and manifesting and then they get resentful and unhappy. So they finally give up on their dreams left scratching their heads like “I tried it all and it didn’t work.” 🤷♀️And for the rest of their lives ... they live in massive certainty because that’s easier than going through the pain of failing.... or so they think and no one lives happily ever after.
Guess what? That’s when you need to have FAITH most of all that all your manifestations are coming towards you. When it gets hard, when everything is crumbling. Imagine if we got what we wanted right away how deeply unfulfilling that would be. We need to heal.
That is another key to making your dreams come true is to heal your past. That’s the road to joy. To allow everything that is triggering you to be a blessing instead of a curse.
And guess what else? You can smile even through the bullshit. Did you know JOY is a high vibration? Did you also know children smile 400 times a day... and the average adult smiles only 12 to 15 times a day!?
Holy shift! What happened?!
So recap on this whole post and what you can take away from it and apply to your life:
#1 HAVE FAITH ✨
When you start your manifesting journey (whether you are advanced or beginner) you will have times when you think you are doing everything right but it’s not happening fast enough. Trust in God’s timing ... not your timing. You have to send out gratitude like it’s already happened. Think about it... why do you want what you want? Because of the feeling you think it will bring you. What if you could access that feeling right now?! Do you know how powerful that vibration is? Walking around like you already won the game of life and being more present with people than ever before! Sigh of relief. You don’t have to worry anymore. Everything is gonna work out. I promise! Even if it’s hard to see now.. you will see why it happened this way one day and it will all make sense.... in the mean time have faith it’s all happening FOR YOU.
#2 HEAL YOUR PAST🥀
When people are triggering you... it’s happening FOR you. Do not write it off as it’s all them. It’s for you. When you get really angry or upset it’s because a part of you believes what the other person is saying is true and it triggers that wound. With that said... you just have to accept that part of you. It’s not all of you. It’s just a part. And when you get with it ... it doesn’t have to unconsciously run you. Whatever you resist will persist.
#3 SMILE THROUGH THE PAIN🌝
We are only here for a little while. I know it’s hard at times. I heard a healer say once that when you hold something and say “this is serious” you hold it in a energy neutral place. You hold it rigidly in a place where there can not be any change. Smile more. Look at things in a playful way. We are here in this lifetime for only a little while. Bring levity to the situations you are in right now and magic will happen. They will all of sudden be flexible and you will have more energy to process and see the gifts in them.
***There is so much more I would like to share with you... but this is all for now. Take these 3 tools and my own experience- apply it to your life... and my promise is... that a shift will happen. And tiny shifts in our thinking create mammoth shifts in our reality.
Sending you hugs, high fives and pattern breaking a** slaps,
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Pss Just in case no one told you yet today...I love you 😘
Spark Your Rockstar